July 17
On July 17, I had a traumatic experience. Three armed
intruders overpowered the security guard at the Guest House (where I live) and
invaded our home. We were physically injured, threatened to be killed, and
robbed of our money and technological devices and equipment.
Response
World Gospel Mission (WGM), our sending agency, moved quickly
to support us in every way, initiating a crisis protocol that includes
ministering to our families, sending counselors to Nigeria to be with us here, and issuing a call for prayer among WGM missionaries and
staff around the world. Westview Community Church, my sending church in
Manhattan, Kansas, also responded with heartfelt support and issued an urgent message to my church family and physically reached out to my daughter, Lynn, who is there. My LIFE Group family (the small group I was privileged to be part of in Kansas) also responded with warmth, love, support, and prayer. New Beginnings International Church, my church in Nigeria, has literally embraced us with compassion and practical help
including providing safe temporary places for us to stay (I am writing from one of those places now) and raising a large amount of funds to
replace our stolen equipment. The leaders of West Africa Theological Seminary
(WATS) entered into our journey of grief, pain, and loss by carefully
acknowledging the seriousness of the matter and extending their heartfelt love
and compassion, not to mention their prayers without ceasing. Our pain is clearly
their pain. And, they are working hard to improve the security system.
My three adult children worked tirelessly to try to contact me to speak words of love and support. This was a challenge since we had no phone or computer in the first couple days after the attack. As a parent, I was keenly aware of the role reversal I was experiencing. How many times have I comforted them in their hours of difficulty? They were there for me.
Jennifer Bennett, my co-missionary also with WGM, is a Nurse Practitioner. Even though she was also a victim, she kindly attended to my physical needs and made sure I have been as comfortable as possible each day since.
I need to pause here and say thank you to everyone. I am truly blessed to have so many people in my life who care. May God richly bless each of you for your kindness extended to me.
My three adult children worked tirelessly to try to contact me to speak words of love and support. This was a challenge since we had no phone or computer in the first couple days after the attack. As a parent, I was keenly aware of the role reversal I was experiencing. How many times have I comforted them in their hours of difficulty? They were there for me.
Jennifer Bennett, my co-missionary also with WGM, is a Nurse Practitioner. Even though she was also a victim, she kindly attended to my physical needs and made sure I have been as comfortable as possible each day since.
I need to pause here and say thank you to everyone. I am truly blessed to have so many people in my life who care. May God richly bless each of you for your kindness extended to me.
At the core of human existence is a desire to make meaning of
our experiences. When we have an experience that does not fit neatly into our
existing schema, we struggle to create new ways of understanding what happened.
This blog post describes how I choose to understand what has happened, as well
as how I hope to go forward.
Courage
On New
Year’s Day, my daughter, Lynn, and I choose one word that we feel
captures our focus for the upcoming year. We give this selection much thought
and prayer. Last year, I said I was “stepping out of the boat” (as Peter did to
walk to Jesus), so my word was “faith.” I needed faith to believe I would have
the funding and support I needed to leave the U.S. for service in Africa. This
year, I selected “courage.” I needed courage to say goodbyes, to enter a new
culture, to live in a new environment, and to embrace all that comes with
becoming a missionary in a developing country. Several friends (without
knowing) affirmed this word for me by giving me gifts or cards with references to courage
or being courageous. I embraced each one as a gift from my Lord who has asked
me to embark on a journey that requires…courage. What I did not know is how
much my courage would be put to the test. It will take courage to go back to
the setting where I was on July 17th. If anything, this event
validates even more the impression I had from the Holy Spirit on January first.
Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid
or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will
never leave you or forsake you. Deuteronomy 31:6
The Word
does not say that we will be free from danger, but that He will be with us. I
must have courage to act on this belief.
Pain
As with any traumatic experience, there was and is pain. I
suffered bruises to my arms, legs, and ribs. Psychologically, there is pain,
too. Then there is the pain of loss.
The men who burst through my bedroom door at 8:30 that night were thieves.
The men who burst through my bedroom door at 8:30 that night were thieves.
We could have been killed. Watching my possessions and money
being taken away was painful. My room looked like destruction. My privacy and
space were violated. My comfort and ease were destroyed.
Some well-intentioned Christians have sought to understand
this pain in a different way than I understand it. “The safest place to be is
in the center of God’s will” they say. I respectfully disagree. I agree with Michele Phoenix's blog post on the “Safety Myth: Feel Good Ignorance.”
Jim Elliott and his friends were
slaughtered while in the center of God’s will.
Corrie Ten Boom was brutalized in a concentration camp while in the
center of God’s will. Countless
Christian men and women, doing exactly what God had asked of them and in no way
deserving of their fate, have suffered and died in abominable ways while in the
center of God’s will.
I would add to that list Keith Green, Stephen (the first
martyr), and even Jesus Christ, Himself who was most certainly in the center of
His Father’s will as he suffered a cruel and painful death on the cross.
When Jesus
spoke of the thief referenced in John 10:10, he was referring to the enemy of
our souls. Juxtaposed against Jesus as the Good Shepherd, there is an enemy who
would try to steal, kill, and destroy our souls and our work. This enemy wants to destroy my
work in Nigeria; wants me to quit and go home.
That
said, I am not ignorant of the fact that I am “rich” by the standards of the
community in which I serve. I am white and privileged. To that I respond in
this way:
To whom much is given, much is required. Luke 12:48
By God’s grace and strength, I will
remain here to work. As Phoenix says in her blog post, the center of God’s will
may not be the safest place to be,
but it is the best place to be.
Life
Life
I have come that they might have life and have it to the full. John
10:10b
The supernatural experience of knowing God in an intimate and
personal way gives life, and that life is full and complete. Nothing else is
needed to bring satisfaction in life. It feels like a great big breath of fresh
air after being cooped up for a long time with stale air. When He speaks,
whether through the still small voice of God or through the written Word, the
Holy Spirit bears witness with my spirit and I feel infused with life.
This “full” life or “abundant” life is the kind of life that
overcomes stealing, killing, and destroying. It overcomes fear and
intimidation. It overcomes race and class struggle and evil in the world. The ultimate
victory will be in the last day. But for now, I am here. We are in the world,
but not of it. My calling is to teach what Jesus taught his disciples. He gives
me life (and I have a new found gratitude for my physical life!) to fulfill
that calling. I choose to stay because of that life that God has breathed into
me and because of the calling God has given to me.
I know the road ahead may be
challenging in many ways. He is with me.
This is how I choose understand my traumatic experience of July 17. I am still alive, and I still have the opportunity to work here. I must be courageous in the face of pain. I know I will benefit greatly from meeting with my expert counselors when they arrive here soon--they will help me to process the experience and prepare to return. I need to draw from Christ the healing, spiritual life, and vitality that I need to work in and for the Kingdom of God.
I welcome your prayers for healing, safety, and peace, as well as for effectiveness in service.